10/98: Daily Life
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Second Letter to Linda Becker's 1998-99 class at Mast Way School in Lee, New Hampshire
October 17, 1998
Hello again! I just finished my lunch of rice with peanut sauce, and I thought I would take a moment to write to you all.
You may be wondering what my daily life is like. In general, I set my alarm for 7:00 a.m. and get up at 8:00 a.m. (I'm sure you've all done that before!). I sweep my concrete floor, which gathers dust so easily, and go out to my latrine. My latrine is just outside the house - a concrete and corrugated-iron building with a tiled pit latrine. I have a two-burner gas stove where I cook my breakfast of oatmeal and tea, and I make my way to the health center around 9. At the health center, I greet all of my colleagues in turn (very important!) and chat a little while. Maybe I'll practice my Pulaar (local language) or help lead a staff meeting to discuss projects we're working on. That may sound very professional and simple, but I assure you . . . things are quite different here. We never set meeting times, and if we do, they change. Only one or two people ever speak in meetings - the educated men. When I try to ask the women's opinions, they often look at me as if I'm making fun of them. And, because this is a society where appearances and groups are very important (i.e., they are "collectivist" versus the "individualist" culture of the U.S.A.), they never tell me what they really think of my ideas. "Yes, yes, yes, that's very important," they'll agree. However, then nobody takes the idea and works on it. They just agreed so that we could all agree and I wouldn't lose face.